Approaching Girls

I know some of you people has been taken quite aback about how i had totally changed during this past 1+ month. In terms of behaviour and the "flirty" attitude that i had displayed.

Think i need to clear these up. Most of the times, i was just playing around. As in, you said this girl was ok, cute, blah blah and asked me to go for it. Well, for me, anyone is ok already. However bad.good her character was. But that doesn't mean...

1. If i together with her, it will be a fling kind of stuff

2. That i really interested.

Point to make, (2). If i am really interested, i will really approach the girl and not mumble it on somewhere yah, i like her, she looks attractive +++. To be in a r/s, doesn't mean u like everything will be ok already. Both people also have to show interest. If i sense the person have ABSOLUTELY no "wants" to be with me, i will back-off. But doesn't mean if u hear from others i'm interested, to the extent i imagine both of us having sex, really means i'm interested in you. Please, for those who know me for a significant shorter time, i forgive you. For those that had known me for >5 years, if you really think i've changed to that extent, please, knock yourself in your head and asked yourself, do you really understand me?

I believe a leopard cant change its spots, not 100%, but 70%. Thus, mostly, i will still be the shy guy in front of girls i just known/interested. My classmates can vouch for that.

Another point to make. Yes, it's true that i'm desperate for a gf for the 2 wks after 6th Mar. But i'm already over that period for now. The "new?" me is just looking for more girl-friends. I need to open up my social circle which has considerably shrunk during the past 5 years or so. Another thing is the possibility of getting real gfs. But that is provided both of us have some feelings about each other.

So....

1) Dun say i just looking for sex when all i wanted was someone to accompany through the nights, since for every night, i was always with company and hardly experiencing loneliness. But sex will be an added incentive. haha...

2) Dun assume just because i casually asked you whether you did like me in the past, means that i wan you just for your body. I wan you NOT ONLY for your body.

3) Having ONS/Flings is no longer a taboo to me, i can have ONS with anyone and be very open with it now. The main difference is I'm SINGLE and i dun need to answer to anyone now.

4) Last but not least, dun believe everything you had heard from Chee chee and Chee Kong. Wat i had told them MAY not be the true words from my heart. Hurhur..... (yes, i saying both u chee(s))