DaWuGui's Melancholy

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VaKminG
11:02 pm

It's final!
She has finally accepted me! On 20th September, around 1800hrs, she finally agreed to be my gf~~~. These final 2 days was quite tiring but it was worth it.
RECAP....
18th Sept....
--> reached home around morning. Went fetch her from school and went for a movie, "Premonition", the show was so-so though. Not the typical kind of horror show, and definitely not in the class of the same name Japanese flick. nonetheless, we went back home in a Mercs cab.
19th September.
--> spent the previous night in ECP. She had went swimming in the morning, met her for lunch, went back to take a haircut and she in the meantime, went to the study in BK.Re-met her after 7 i think, stayed around in BK Yishun for her to finish up the reading. After that, was pondering on where to go, in the end decided to go to ECP. During the journey there, she suggested buying wine to drink at the beach, did just that. Bought a big bottle of white wine, and 2 small cans of 'bubbly' red wine. Finished everything within 2 hours there. She got a bit drunk, think cause she was quite physically tired. but she opened up to me quite a bit then. as she was drunk, she did some crazy things, like swimming in the waters. Luckily she still had her towel with her... so at least she did managed to get a bit dried up... we reached back her place around 4+. Since she was still wet, we went to take a seat near our usual hangout around her place. Hugged her close there, and she did respond... After that went to work!!! Yes, in the morning without much sleep. Did rushed back home to wash and change. Super tired that day. hai...
20th September
--> spent the night in Changi Airport. she studied for it while i was half sleeping, half admiring her. haha, sent her back, this time by bus though. Hugged her quite a lot of times during the trip. Think she was super tired too. Really fell asleep. Message her to sleep well, during my own trip home. She asked me to remind her to tell me something when she woke up. Did just that when at my afternoon shift, she told me she will hand over the key to her heart. Was quite delighted with this and keep on smiling here and there for the whole shift. :p

VaKminG
8:53 pm

Been quite a long time since i updated my blog.Well, now i try to remember as much as i could.
First, a brief update on the cheong session held [date][to be updated]. It was more of a TX outing though. The participants involved.... Me, Shiou Wei and husband, Renyi, Franky, Andy, Roy, Victor, Chris, John. Other non-current ESPN include Corrine, Adam, Eileen and Chris friend, Doris. To me, it was quite enjoyable, mainly because everyone really let go of everything and just play along. Can't remember much, so just look at the pictures ba.

HK TripI went to HK on 16-19th August, with Joey and her colleagues... it's was quite a tight schedule with me only submitting the application for the Disney tickets upon coming back to office after my reservist and 5 days leave.
16th August - left the house around 630am, waited for a nice cab (those newer kind of taxis) but it never arrived. Thus, set off with a TIBS cab. Sigh, not that comfortable but kinda late in picking Joey up but in the end, we reached the airport very early. The rest haven't even arrived... When all 5 had arrived, along with Joey's colleague who appeared just to send us off, we went for breakfast at the airport's canteen before getting onto the Cathay Pacific's aircraft. The food and seats were not that nice. But the movies shown were not bad, Premonition, Shrek 3, Liondance etc. Switched around a lot, cause wanted to see the first 2 movies on my DVD player instead. Arrived in HK around 1+pm, was raining when we arrived. Dampened a bit of my mood but luckily, it cleared up after a while. We stayed in Metropark Mongkok, Near Prince Edward MRT station. Our hotel was quite near the 2 more-famous streets. Goldfish Street and Woman's Street. We had our dinner at a little eatery near the hotel. Sadly to say, it does not taste very good. Went to the Woman's Street for browsing and shopping time. As usual, i did not buy much from the street as i wanted to check out the prices first before spending. I did found quite many things that i liked. Namely 3/4 pants, jeans, shirts, jackets, canvas shoes, towels and some teeny weeny stuff. More about them at the latter stages. Joey tried to bargain for black-tiled mahjong set. From around 600HKD, they reduced to 300HKD and then to 250HKD. Joey was very interested but in the end, her mother did not wanted the mahjong set. Thus, we walked off, little to know that the salesperson tried their best to get her to buy, with actions like reducin to 200HKD and pulling her hand, but we don't really like the attitude they had persuaded her to buy. We got lost for a while since we really know the direction that we are facing. Managed to get our way back after almost an hour of walking. Me and Joey almost collapsed upon reaching our room. Yes, me and Joey shared a room. AND no, we did not have any hanky panky between us. We fell asleep quite fast.
17th AugustCindy and her other colleagues wnted to go to Macau since we all opt out for the one day tour of HK. Me and Joey decided that they were nothing much to see there, thus, we went for our own little tour. First, we went to Tsim Sha Hsui, since we heard about the name so much in dramas. Only when we reached there that we know it's actually quite a high class place. A lot of branded stuff, that me and her find it quite impossible to buy. Joey actually found a bag she quite liked, think the brand was Fendi. It cost around 3000SGD! After 2 hours there, we decided we had enough and decided to go to somewhere more affordable, Tong Luo Wan. I had read in a book that there were quite a lot of trendy stuff more suitable for the young and more affordable as well. We wanted to go to a place called Island soemthing. Can't really remember the full name, but know we spent another long period of time trying to find out where is it. However, we managed to rest our aching legs at a dessert store before that. Managed to get a FOSSIL watch from a shop over there.
18th AugustWent to Disneyland! Took the MRT there, was quite an experience, at least in terms of the train-ride, although only for one stop, it looked very different. A very Disney concept train. Regretfully, we only stayed there for 3+ hours due to some circumstance. Never take picture with my Fav Donald Duck too. hai. Evening time, we went to Temple Street to walk around. It's more or less similar with Woman's Street, but one thing quite different is they have sex novelties shop@!
19th AugustTime to go back to Singapore, our flight is at 8pm, thus, we went to the Woman Street for one last spree. Spent most of my money on this day. Went to the Esprit factory outlet located near there too. Yup, it was much cheaper.! In total for these 4 days, i had bought more than 7 shirts, 2 pair of jeans, 1 3/4 pants, a cap, some accessories, a watch, a canvas shoes +++. But worth the money spent though. Hurhur, one regret was not taking pictures. Only taken less than 20pics for the 4 days. Haiz....

KTV .2 sessions of KTV. On sat (1stSep), went KTV with Daniel, Mun Fai, Faa, Jasmine and her friends. Sang from 10-about 3am. Argh@ My favourite impersonation of Jay's "Ting Mama De Hua" flopped miserably, think quite sometime i hadn't sang that. :{ But in all, was quite enjoyable.

Monday, went KTV with Liyun, Jieqi, and Rizuan (Akira). I was meeting them for the first time. Surprisingly, i did not have much shyness with the 3 of them. Maybe cause it's a small group, or maybe i did become more vocal and open. Was quite off form that day. Sigh.
Makan SessionMakan session at Kuishinbo on 30th Aug. Japanese style buffet. Thought i wun have much things to feast on over there. Turned out i was quite wrong. Quite a sumptous meal. Especially the dessert! Yum yum! That was also a send-off for Tau Kay Kevin Yong. His last week with ESPN before he ventured into his own business. Went for a beer after that at Balaclava. Quite ex! $19 bucks! wooh!

First MonthMy nephew's first month celebration! Held a buffet dinner at Sembawang. Saw quite a few of my relatives. Enjoyed the buffet too, Thai style TOM YAM! Only thing that came bad from the day. My tank enjoyed the company of some drainage guppies, courtesy of one of my brother's friend daughter, who had caught them at a fishing area for kids. Went out to meet Fae to discuss about us around 7pm, received a call from my brother around 10pm, saying a lot of my fishes were dying/dead. Rushed home after that but only managed to get home around midnight. 75% of my fishes were dead! The next day's tally of my tank. 0 Rummy Nose, 0 Neon Tetra, 0 Lousy Guppies, 5 High Class Guppies, 10 Endlers, 0 Flying Foxes, 8 Corys but surprisingly, all but one of my shrimps survived. The previous balance as far as i can rem. 24;10;17;11;25;8;8. Sigh... Maybe a sign for me to start a totally shrimp tank?

VaKminG
2:51 am

Been really long since i've updated.

Many things happened. Both good and bad.

okie. update on my NS life. Finished! the 3D2n camp finally came to an end. But hate it when they dragged till in the end, 6 then book out. The last day was not much better. Spent a lot of time doing nothing, until the celebration planned for 3pm finally starts at 5pm. By then, i've got to rush down to Vivo. So took a cab. my 5th cab for the ns life. Sigh.

why was i in St James? Friend's birthday at Boiler Room.(not again~-). all her friends was super handsome guys till i a bit zi bei. Lolx. A view....

SO the guys all looked cool or handsome right? Sigh.

supposed to go for crabbing on 6th. then go back to work night. on Sunday 5th, we confirmed the thing again. Then discovered they will be meeting only 1930. Which means by the time we reached, placed order and finished eating, should be around 2200. But yet got one heavy thing need to bring at work. So i told him, put me as "Maybe" first. Cause scared will be spoilsport if leave early. In the end, think the maybe affected him a lot. For the very 1st time, he flared up. Cancel the whole thing. And think he delete me from his contacts in MSN cause never ever see him there at all now. Sigh... maybe should call him one day to clarify... but dunno how to start,....

For the better news. going HK on 16-19 Aug. Can go for the free Disneyland thing liao! hurhur.

For the best news! My relationship with her took a major step in front. She withdrew her 'cutting off contacts" stuff! Yea!

VaKminG
2:15 pm

NS life starts@!
Hate wearing boots, making my feet quite sore and tired at the end of the day.
Adding to e fact that need 3D2N field camp now. Sigh.

Wat a way to start off the 3rd day. Was late. Woke up at 730am when i'm supposed to be up at 6am. Late. Very late. So no choice took cab down. But things were a rush.

Today's lessons was v fast. Think in total only went thru 3+ hours of lessons. After lunch at 2pm, finished 1 hr of lesson before slackin all e way. However, any thoughts of a bad beginning doesn't mean the whole day ended with a msg from her. She asked me to give her time to herself till Nov. Originally thought was ok, but the heartache comes after just 1 hr. I cant do it. At least not totally isolate from her all the way till November!

Sigh. Things dun seem to be opening well this week~

VaKminG
10:25 pm

So sorry, pple, long time never update.

Things got a little busy, a little boring and very depressed.

Some updates 1st
Friday cheonging at St James. Eileen's birthday party bash.

Credit cards arrived! UOB spell my name wrongly, asked them to change to Vakming Toh anyway, still waiting for the VISA signature card. Citibank's one got it le, the CLEAR card and SMRT card! Bought a quilt from IKEA, the covers and mirror. Used the CLEAR to swipe. Zzz, 100+, like that also 100+! sigh, waiting for OCBC to reply me about the IKEA credit card. Then can buy the wardrobe i saw today! 600+@, so need installment basis.

Went tenchicomics. Find tt not many books to buy. "Nan dao" really got to buy the old sets tt i aiming for? Xiong leh! Titles like Bleach, "Mai Siu", "Mo Di", "Xun Qin Ji", "Dear Boys I, II", "Slamdunk", etc....

Need to revamp my tank. Too many snails. Project Misfits and gang, Faa should know. Sigh. Not enough sand. Not enough occupants. Tomorrow getting 50cherry, see hw things will go.

Haha, went Hotel81 with 3 girls. Dun think anything. Went there to play cards and drink beer, cause cant find anywhere better since all 4 of us had to wake up in morning. So played few hours then sleep few hours. I slept the most. Till 11. [' ']" All left before 830am.

Need to buy clothes these 2 days. From bedok, maybe tml.

Depressed news : officially rejected by her, sigh. but i happy-go-lucky. Will persevere!

Signing off. tataz

VaKminG
11:55 pm

Went down to St James on 27th.

Yeah, yeah, before Project Misfits and company said i went clubbing/cheonging again, this was arranged de, ok!

ok, the day started out fine enough. Went to meet Fae after her swim in Yishun, went eat at the food court, before going down Sheraton Towers for collection of her father's birthday cake. Turned out it was not ready, so we went down to Orchard for an image makeover of me. Got some concepts, but was happy when she said actually i do know how to make myself look better. But....money issue then leh...

In the end, just in-shop shopping, then had a break inside Coffee Bean. Saw some Koreans there, and dunno who is the one who had told me, Korean ladies talking in Korean really sound like Ah-Lian type of pattern. :] Then talked till forget time, so rushed down back to Sheraton to take the cake before her cousin left. Hmm, the cake looks impressive, not to mention the smaller than usual price tag. Think 20bucks for 1kg of the cake which looks very big. (note: 1kg i made up myself, dunno the weight).

Eileen, who had came back from Bangkok the previous night, or should i say that morning, called me up after i sent Fae back, she had fixed the cheonging session before she left for Bangkok on 19th, so after acting hard-to-get for a while, we fixed at 11pm. At that time, Fae had yet to confirm since she will be celebrating her father's birthday that night. She called me few hours later, when i'm on my way home, and we talked quite a while. BUT, sigh, since i cant be in lift as the call will be out of range, i walked up the 7th floor of stairs, and she heard me panting away. lol, sibei useless like tt.

Eileen called slightly later, changing the time 1/2 hour earlier. I reached there late though. Haha, when on her lorry, she told me she willo be fetching Jean, her friend tt i do not know yet. Then i said ok lo, and asked her about Fae. She said she also haven't reply her. So i thought she was still busy with the celebrations, esp when Eileen told me that Jean lived just opposite from her, so when reaching i called Fae, but she told me 5 minutes later she'll call me back. In the end, was taken aback when she appeared beside my window. That's when i know i got tricked, grrr.... but was still happy cause she did go. :]

When we reached St James, it's nearing midnight liao. Turns out the 27th was John's birthday, since he had said he never get drunk, thus, naturally, we all "guan" him liquor. He was tipsy, but still sober enough though, especially when we went for Bak Ku Teh after the session. The usual suspects were there. He, me, Chris, Mellissa, Eileen Ng/Ang, Fae and Steven. Seems like now everytime, all of us will be there when we cheong, 'cept for Steven, who made a rare appearance that night. Fae commented my dressing for the cheonging that night was nice, haha, anyway, that necklace was a gift from Eileen from Bangkok, so please dun comment i had converted to Christianity. Not then, not now and most prob not in future.

Sent Eileen back since we dun think she can make it le. Then me and Fae, took the LRT/MRT from Punggol back to Sengkang and then Fernvale. Sent her home for the 2nd time in a row. Haha, where she commented that i do not need to send her back everytime, but i think she cant made it happen. :]

Just a sidenote : Going genting with Faa, Yuting and Yuhan this weekend. So will post up pics then! For now, gotta clear my room first le.....

Pictures of that night!

CANDID SHOT OF THE DAY!

VaKminG
2:07 pm